Well, it is Monday again, which in our house means Family Home Evening Night; tonight I was in charge of the lesson, so I took a part of my lesson I taught on Sunday and tweaked it. First I showed Braden my CTR ring and asked him what it stood for; he told me that it meant choose the right. We then talked about how by choosing the right we stay on the path back to Heavenly Father. I told him that Heavenly Father wants us to make good choices, so we can return to him. We then talked about how Satan wants us to do what is wrong and make bad choices, so we can't return to Heavenly Father; he wants us to be miserable just like him. I then showed Braden and Brooke one of their blocks (they look like bricks) and asked them what it was; we talked about how they were "bricks", and that we had to be strong like bricks to return to Heavenly Father. We talked about how making good choices makes us stronger and making bad choices make us weaker. After that we talked a little more about Satan and how he tries to get us to make bad choices, but we are going to be strong (imagine us all flexing our muscles) and resist Satan's temptations; whenever Satan tries to get us to make a bad choice, we are going to flex our muscles, and say, "WHATEVER LOSER!" Next, I had the cuties select a slip of paper out of a bag, which I read. If it was a good choice, they got to add a "brick" to their wall, and if it was a bad choice, they had to take a "brick" off their wall. Some of the choices were:
You hit your brother, because you are mad.
You help your daddy unload the dishwasher.
You help your mommy clean your room.
You call somebody stupid.
When your mommy is asking you to do something, you say, “Whatever!” and walk away.
You take something that doesn’t belong to you and break it.
When you break your brother’s toy, you do jobs to get money to buy a new toy.
You yell and scream in the middle of church.
You sit quietly during sacrament and think about Jesus.
When you don’t get what you want, you fall on the floor and have a tantrum.
When you get scared, you say a prayer to Heavenly Father.
You read your scriptures every day with your family.
You throw a ball at your sister or brother and hit them in the head.
You say a prayer every morning and every night.
After they finished their wall, I had them think of good choices they could make; they then got to add a few more bricks for each good choice they could think of. I then bore my testimony of how making good choices does make us stronger, it brings us closer to Heavenly Father, and it helps us return to Heavenly Father and Jesus. I then, in my best cheerleader voice, asked,
"What team are we on?"
"The Family Team!"
"And who wants to return to live with Heavenly Father?"
"WE DO!"
"What kind of choices do we need to make?"
"Good choices!"
"Making good choices makes us what?"
"Strong!" (more flexing)
"Who wants us to make bad choices?"
"Satan!"
"What do we say when Satan tries to get us to make bad choices?"
"WHATEVER LOSER!"
Yes, I understand that not everyone teaches their children to say, "Whatever Loser!" to Satan, but for us, it works. They really enjoyed the lesson, and they both left with a drive to make good choices; I guess I should point out that we also discussed returning to Heavenly Father as a family. Well, after my lesson, we sang a song, Braden said our closing prayer, and then Rich had the kids make a cinnamon toast tower (Rich was in charge of the treat).
Here are some pictures of the cinnamon toast tower building.



